Sex Educator Directory and Resources

Sexological Bodyworkers and Somatic Sex Coaches

The best resource is the Certified Sexological Bodyworker Association search their updated practicer list. 

Surrogate Partner Therapy 

Surrogate partner therapy is a three-way therapeutic relationship between a licensed therapist, a client, and a partner surrogate. It's designed to help the client become more comfortable with intimacy, sensuality, sex and sexuality, and their body. Find a practitioner here

Sex-Positive Therapists, Marriage Counselors and Social Workers

Licensed professionals experienced in alternative sexuality, gender identity issues, polyamory, open relationships, kink, gay, queer, trans identity and coming out. When searching, ask the professional what field they specialize in and let them know a little bit of what obstacles you're facing to make sure you're a good fit. Find a licensed therapist or MSW here. Most professionals are working with clients remotely so you don't need to only search your state.