I mentor newbies who are figuring out their nieche and where they want to go; To the other end of the spectrum, I coach established professionals who want to re-brand upscale or take their business in a different direction and find new clientel.
Marketing and Branding
Finding your authentic voice in a fantasy world
Creating a professional website
Ad and website copy
Photography and video
Focusing on your niche
Figuring out your rate
Services you want to advertise
Where to advertise
Free advertising (Social media 101)
Staying 'on brand' on your social media and advertsing
How to fly under 'Big Brother' radar (avoid getting your account banned)
Switching focus from everyone to just find a few great regulars
Multiple streams of income
Paying your taxes and creating a "vanilla" company as a cover
Investing to retire from the industry
Safety practice for in-person professionals*
Screening potential clients
Spotting time wasters
Learning to hear your own 'No'
Training your 'Spidey' senses to spot red flags
Blacklist sites, apps and how to use them
Creating and enforcing boundaries with your clients
Ways to get paid
Getting comfortable speaking on the phone to potential clients
Where to meet clients
Dining and traveling with clients
Staying safe on the internet
There's a lot of stigma and sometimes lonliness in the industry. We often work alone and may not be able to share what we do for work with family or friends. We give do much physical and emotional labor with our clients, we often foget about the inportance of self-care. While I am not a licenced therapist, I am a former in-person sex worker with a decade of experience. I can empathize with feeling alone, carrying around the heavy burden of secrets and feeling burn-out. I offer a safe space to open up, cry, get angry, laugh about things that went wrong, share your dreams, ask questions and be heard. I also can refer you to other sex-positive resources and professionals. I also offer coaching on how to 'come out' as a sex worker to your family, partner or potential partners if you're dating.
In-person workers who meet with clients one-on-one in a private setting have a different set of risks than workers who strictly work online or in a club. They include escorts, dominatrixes, tantra and erotic massage providers, 'sugar' arrangements.
In your initial contact, we will set up an introduction call (over phone video) so I can best understand your goals, what type of work you do and come up with a plan to see how I can help your business succeed, or just be a confidante.
Individual sessions by phone or video, $250 | 75 minutes
Thirty days of mentoring, money making magic
We connect twice a week to keep you on track and put your goals into action. You will have assignments to complete between sessions.
Four weekly sessions by video or phone and four email follow-ups
I do offer sliding scale fees for Black, Brown and Indigenous women/femme folk.
Don't ever forget my babes: Sex Work is WORK and YOU"RE WORTH IT
(also F the patriarchy... I mean for money
Contact me to set up an introduction call.